When you observing someone act something they think they can do that of course
you might tell me that is the sense of entitlement in everyone's mind
The fight happened when I think you should take some specific roles, but you do not think so
I keep thinking, why my sense of entitlement is disappearing, but find all I have is commitment
Although I rarely have some sense of entitlements, but treat commitment too seriously
I rarely make any commitment to anyone, because I treat this as the rules to do or not to do something
Here are some examples I observed recently.
One of my pervious friend, George, think he is my best friend, and should have some privilege
this sense of entitlement will destroy any relationship when you offend your best friend
Do not put your sense of entitlement in your life, like my mom said, there is nothing of course
By observing this, I start to understand the lesson from George is ...
Never think someone will always nice to you, there is no of course
However, by observing the Tiffany, I got some feeling same about her using her parents' money
I think I also use my parents' money, but I do not think I feel that the money is the of course
Then there is a conclusion that
there is no sense of entitlement except both sides of the trade agree with that
I called that is commitment.
without commitment, there is never has a sense of entitlement.
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